tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-68991438213538795142024-03-13T14:53:37.713-05:00City SweetA mom who cooksCity Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.comBlogger369125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-33954996043900440802015-01-30T17:30:00.000-06:002015-01-31T06:34:18.409-06:00Intentional livingI ask that you suspend disbelief on my blog’s title, look, and feel matching my current life. Jeremy and I have long ago turned in our city folk cards. These days, it’s white picket fences, soccer games on Saturday mornings, and block parties. And I love it.<br />
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Rather than suburban, I’d like to call us small-town. Like I wave hello to Vicky and Larry through their bakery’s window as I make my way to the train station in the morning kind-of-lifestyle.<br />
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So for now, I’m using the space to cook, muse, write, and repeat. Talking with a graphic designer, figuring out how to get a new URL, migrating my recipes, and all of that business will come with time. And with that introduction, here we go.<br />
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Thinking big thoughts for 2015. I’m trying to make more conscious decisions about my time. I might do Activity A or Activity B, but I’m not going to make myself completely nuts by doing all of the above.<br />
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Two good books are giving me some keys to helping me live more intentionally, valuing my time and sanity. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0374228442/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=0374228442&linkCode=as2&tag=citswe-20&linkId=7VQ3SRAFUT2NSPVI">Overwhelmed: Work, Love, and Play When No One Has the Time</a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=as2&o=1&a=0374228442" height="1" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" />
is about the time pressures of modern living – work, home, and play, and how working parents might find some balance in their lives and – gasp – even some leisure time. <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1601425759/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1601425759&linkCode=as2&tag=citswe-20&linkId=YDHRYZKAAIDU7UB2">I Like Giving: The Transforming Power of a Generous Life</a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=as2&o=1&a=1601425759" height="1" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" />
is my bedtime read – a faith-based book on giving and the inward and outward benefits of living a generous life. I like and would recommend both.<br />
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I've made incremental changes to reflect this resolution in the new year. I've said “not now” to considering a big volunteer role at Jack’s school; I tried to choose something for myself – like heading to the gym – rather than feeling the need to put our Christmas decorations away in the perfect order on a Saturday afternoon. <br />
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No one’s perfect and I’m the first in line. Last night was a circus. I choose to make a dinner that required my attention longer than a weeknight dinner should. Jeremy choose to work from home but had to fervently pitch a story to a major media outlet and was on the phone and checking email simultaneously. At the same time, Jossie was rightfully underfoot, and I had one eye on the clock so we weren't late to pick up Jack from soccer. A little too much; we all survived.<br />
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And so now here I’m finally landing on the real point of this post: Cookies.<br />
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I chose baking cookies over a fair number of other tasks last week, and I also gave myself a break on trying to get everything else done on my to-do list. Two batches, even. And when one little classmate oogled Jack’s mint-chocolate cookies at lunch time the other day, he asked Jack if his mom had a website for recipes. And yes, little unnamed school boy, Mrs. M sure does.<br />
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<b>Andes mint cookies</b><br />
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¾ cup unsalted butter<br />
1 ½ cup firmly packed light brown sugar<br />
2 tablespoons water<br />
12 oz semi-sweet chocolate<br />
2 eggs<br />
2 ½ cups flour<br />
1 ¼ teaspoons baking soda<br />
½ teaspoons salt<br />
1 lb Andes mint wafers<br />
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Cook butter, sugar, and water until butter is melted and sugar is dissolved. Add chocolate until partially melted. Remove from heat and stir until chocolate is completely melted. Pour into bowl and let stand 10 min to cool slightly.<br />
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With mixer, beat in eggs, one at a time. Add dry ingredients, mix until blended. Chill dough 1 hour.<br />
Preheat oven to 350 deg. Line 2 cookie sheets with parchment paper. Roll teaspoons of dough into balls. Place 2” apart on sheets. Bake 12-13 minutes. <br />
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Remove from oven and immediately place Andes mint on each cookie. Allow to soften and then swirl mint over cookies. Remove from cookie sheets and cool completely.<br />
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1 cup sugar</div>
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In a large bowl, cream butter and sugar until light and fluffy. Beat in egg and molasses. Combine the flour, ginger, baking soda, cinnamon, cloves and salt; gradually add to the creamed mixture and mix well.2. Roll into 1-1/2-in. balls, then roll in sugar. Place 2 in. apart on ungreased baking sheets. Bake at 350° for 10-12 minutes or until puffy and lightly browned. Remove to wire racks to cool. Yield: 2-1/2 dozen.</div>
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City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-67382765615526938552014-03-09T21:08:00.000-05:002014-03-10T12:12:01.430-05:00Sunday supperA week ago this Sunday night, Jack and I were touching down in Chicago after a family visit to Cleveland. Already travel-weary, we arrived home to what Jeremy and Jossie had been dealing with for 24 hours - a gas leak in our yard. The heat was off in our house and there were gas levels registering in our basement. I ran through our cold house (42 degrees) to grab a few things for all of us for the next morning, and then we retreated to a kind friend's house. The local gas company's trucks were idling outside, their orange lights constantly flashing in the icy-cold winter's night.<br />
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Everything is fine now, but we had a brief vision of what it's like to feel unsafe in your home. Not awesome. Three-year-old Jossie keeps telling us she's so glad we're all home and I agree.<br />
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I've spent this weekend pulling the house back together and found a home-hearty meal for Sunday night that is not time-intensive but provides some great aromas from the kitchen. And you roast the chicken atop the vegetables, which makes the vegetables so tender and delicious. It also calls for only 1/3 cup of dry white wine, so there's plenty left over for dinner (a big plus in my kitchen). Serve with a nice green salad and some hearty bread:<br />
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<strong>Roasted chicken breasts with sweet potatoes</strong><br />
From the super-awesome cookbook: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1609613546/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1609613546&linkCode=as2&tag=citswe-20">Keepers: Two Home Cooks Share Their Tried-and-True Weeknight Recipes and the Secrets to Happiness in the Kitchen</a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=as2&o=1&a=1609613546" height="1" style="border: currentColor !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" />
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4 sweet potatoes (about 2 1/2 pounds total), peeled and cut into 1-inch pieces<br />
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4 chicken breast halves (about 3 pounds total), patted dry<br />
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Preheat the oven to 450 degrees, with a rack in the middle position. Put sweet potatoes in a large roasting pan, sprinkle on the the 2 tablespoons of olive oil, season with salt and pepper, and toss until well combined. Spread the potatoes out in a single layer and set aside. (Note: Instead of 4 sweet potatoes, I used an assortment of 1 garnet yam, 2 russet potatoes and 3 carrots - the yummiest parts were the yam and carrots.)<br />
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In a small bowl, stir together the remaining 1 tablespoon of olive oil, rosemary, lemon zest and juice, and season with salt. Gently loosen the skin from the chicken breasts and rub the mixture between the skin and meat. Season the chicken with a little more salt and pepper, then put skin-side up in the pan on top of potatoes and roast for 20 minutes.<br />
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Gently toss the potatoes, sliding the ones under the chicken out and vice versa. Pour the wine over the chicken and continue to roast until the chicken is cooked through, about 15 minutes more.<br />
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Transfer the chicken to a plate, tent with foil to keep warm, and let rest for 5 to 10 more minutes. If the potatoes aren't tender yet, return to the oven. When they are soft, toss them again, scraping up caramelized bits o nthe bottom of the pan. Serve the chicken with the potatoes. <br />
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City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-23997478057927796712014-02-15T06:53:00.001-06:002014-02-18T12:07:52.330-06:00Can we start again?If you are reading this, then you must be my mom or sister. Hi Mom, Dayna, and Laura.<br />
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I've taken a considerable break from blogging. I'm concerned with putting myself out there while protecting the privacy of my children. I don't want future prom dates or college admissions offices to find my blog, where they will read tales about how long it took someone to graduate from diapers to underpants.<br />
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But I do want to chronicle these days for my kids and Jeremy and for myself. I do want to write things about being a mom who works in the nonprofit sector. Who lives on Chicago's North Shore. Who has an interfaith marriage. Who comes from and married into very loud, very loving families. Who easily harps on the bad stuff, even when the good stuff is overflowing. Who likes to cook. And entertain. Who sees recipes as both honoring the past and welcoming the future.<br />
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Yesterday was one of my favorite days - Valentine's Day. Simple interactions at school - a hello, a knowing smile over our kindergartners' heads shared with a fellow parent - mean so much to me. Quiet time at home by the fireplace next to Jeremy, reading a book instead of doing laundry, work email or the dishes. Treats in the mail sent thoughtfully by a friend and the kids' grandparents. Decorating sugar cookies with Jack, and a Valentine's Day playdate with Jossie and her new little girlfriends. This is the stuff that I cherish.<br />
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I've posted this recipe before, but among my friends, it's been officially branded as Mrs. Caruso's sugar cookies.<br />
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<b>Mrs. Caruso's sugar cookies</b><br />
2 1/2 cups flour<br />
1 teaspoon baking soda<br />
1 teaspoon cream of tartar<br />
1 1/2 cups powdered sugar<br />
1 cup unsalted butter, softened<br />
1 egg<br />
1 teaspoon vanilla extract<br />
1 teaspoon almond extract<br />
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Mix together flour, baking soda and cream of tartar in a bowl and set aside. Mix powdered sugar, butter, egg, vanilla and almond extract in a stand mixer. Mix in flour mixture; do not overmix. Cover and refrigerate for at least 3 hours.<br />
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Heat oven to 375 degrees. Roll out cookie dough and cut into desired shapes. Place on ungreased cookie sheet and bake 7-8 minutes until edges are slightly brown.<br />
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Makes 5 dozen 2-inch cookies.<br />
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1 cup powdered sugar<br />
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract<br />
1-2 tablespoons of half and half<br />
2 or 3 drops of food coloring (optional)<br />
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Mix all ingredients together until smooth and of spreading consistency. Tint with food coloring if desired.<br />
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So we'll see where this goes. Maybe there will be more <a href="http://www.gettyimages.com/Creative/Frontdoor/leanin" target="_blank">stock art</a> and less photos of the kids. Thanks for sticking with me.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-17216791757476664862013-09-06T11:10:00.002-05:002013-09-07T13:15:28.712-05:00Settling inIt's September 6 and the high today is supposed to be 85 degrees. But I still got myself my first pumpkin spice latte on the season. Mmm-mmm, bring on fall.<br />
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When Jeremy and I were house-hunting in the spring, I reflected that there is only so much research you can do on an area - the schools, amenities and property taxes. But your neighbors - well, only time will tell.<br />
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Blessedly, we landed in a very warm, community-oriented neighborhood, anchored by a one-lot playground. On school mornings, the kids parade down the streets, walking to the elementary school. Friday evenings, there are pizza parties on the playground. We had our block party last weekend, where Jeremy and I got to meet more people. One woman noted that the house really becomes your own when you start cooking and baking your favorite recipes, perfuming your house with those wonderfully comforting, familiar smells.<br />
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I thought of her as I prepared our Rosh Hashanah dinner this week. We had what are becoming our traditional dishes for this holiday - Italian-style brisket and <a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2009/09/rosh-hashanah-part-two.html">apple cake</a>; I had my little baker at my side.<br />
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<b>Provencal cherry tomato gratin</b><br />
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3 pints cherry or grape tomatoes, halved<br />
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1 teaspoon dried thyme<br />
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper<br />
3 large garlic cloves, peeled<br />
1⁄3 cup chopped fresh flat-leaf parsley<br />
2 cups coarse bread cubes from a country bread (crusts removed)<br />
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5 tablespoons unsalted butter<br />
6 cups chopped leeks, white and light green parts (4 leeks)<br />
4 cups (1½ pounds) Yukon Gold potatoes, peeled and diced into ¾" cubes<br />
4 cups (2 pounds) celery root, peeled and diced into ¾" cubes<br />
3 cups heavy cream<br />
Kosher salt<br />
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Melt butter over medium heat in a large (8" to 10") saucepan or Dutch oven. Rinse leeks well in a colander, spin dry in a salad spinner, and add to pot. Sauté over medium-low heat, stirring occasionally, 8 to 10 minutes, until tender but not browned. Add potatoes, celery root, cream, 1 tablespoon salt, and 2 teaspoons pepper to the pot, stir, and bring to a boil. Lower heat to very low, cover pot, and simmer gently 25 to 30 minutes, stirring occasionally, until vegetables are tender. Be careful—don't let the vegetables scorch on the bottom of the pan! In batches, pour mixture into the bowl of a food processor fitted with a steel blade and pulse until coarsely pureed. Taste for seasonings, return to saucepan, and keep warm over very low heat. If mixture gets too thick, add a little more cream.<br />
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1 pound French green beans, trimmed<br />
2 teaspoons minced garlic (2 cloves)<br />
1 tablespoon grated lemon zest (2 lemons)<br />
3 tablespoons minced fresh flat-leaf parsley<br />
3 tablespoons freshly grated Parmesan cheese<br />
2 tablespoons toasted pine nuts<br />
2 1/2 tablespoons good olive oil<br />
Kosher salt and freshly ground black pepper<br />
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Happy weekend!City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-51742874068124206182013-08-27T09:40:00.002-05:002013-08-27T09:40:58.001-05:00First dayThis moment is a good moment to shake me from my blog-writing coma. <div>
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Today is Jack's first full day of kindergarten. Yesterday, we had an open house for students and their parents, but today is the real deal.</div>
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Jack, Jossie and I were a few steps behind our neighbors as we walked to the school. We quickened our pace to catch up. Jack ran ahead and fell in line with two neighborhood boys. I was okay until that point - I watched how Jack tried to match their steps, readjusting his new backpack on his shoulders. He was looking to them on where he might fit in. Just a block or two away, all three boys were laughing together, blended together.</div>
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We hit the school grounds just as the first bell rang. Jack ran ahead, but then double-backed. He grabbed my hand, and I did my best to not cry. I grabbed Jossie's stroller and we pressed closer to the door, through the crowds of parents and students. "Where do I go?" Jack looked at me. I reminded him of what he needed to do and knelt down to hug and kiss him. Our new neighbor and friend, Annie, pressed her son's hand into Jack's hand, and together the boys walked into their classroom together, holding hands. Annie and I stood side-by-side, watching her youngest and my firstborn as they disappeared. I think we were symbolically holding hands too.</div>
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Church was at its best; the choir was all-women, and we sang comforting hymns. We sang my favorite hymn in fact. We had it at Jeremy's and my wedding.</div>
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We packed this afternoon. As I lowered plastic boxes of Legos into a moving box, I thought I'd get Jack's thoughts. "I think these Legos are a little nervous to move, Jack," I said. "What do you think I should tell them?"</div>
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Right now, I'm living in-between. I'm still a city dweller with a husband, two kids, and my non-profit job. But a month from tomorrow, I will be a suburban mom with a husband, two kids, and my non-profit job.<br />
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I grew up in the suburbs. This should not be new to me. But I've spent my adult life as a city dweller. Though I never think of myself as a city person.<br />
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We are moving. To a 1908 house with a white picket fence in a lakeside community. It is a foursquare house with a smooth stucco finish. Frank Lloyd Wright fancied stucco finishes. It it not big but it is perfect and charming. Perfectly charming. That's why Jeremy and I wrote an offer for it in the back of our broker's car the first time we saw it. <a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VBV_wsaQm0A/UalSzjFuA7I/AAAAAAAABZI/lwq8FZhndMM/s1600/house.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; display: inline !important; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" height="480" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-VBV_wsaQm0A/UalSzjFuA7I/AAAAAAAABZI/lwq8FZhndMM/s640/house.jpg" width="640" /></a><br />
This house feels right to us. Since the offer was accepted, we've had a chance to meet the mom of the house. She clasped my hands and told me we were just the family she wanted for this house, and I told her we would take good care of it.<br />
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Our new neighborhood is full of children, and there is a park that serves as a community gathering place down the block. We can walk to Jack's school, two different business districts, the library, the grocery store, the commuter train and Northwestern football games on autumn Saturdays. Every time we visit, the realization that this is a very good idea for our family sinks in deeper and deeper.<br />
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And back in the city, I think about what we've had here. I think about it a lot and how things will change. Jack at five years old can hail a cab. Our favorite lunchtime spot after Jack's school day is in the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Hancock_Center" target="_blank">seventh tallest building in the U.S.</a> Jeremy and I can be home from work within an $8-cab ride. We can sit on a 4th-floor porch and take in the Chicago skyline. I know to do my errands either on a weeknight after 8 p.m. or on a weekend before 8 a.m. to avoid traffic.<br />
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In the city, we can be part of communities - work, school, church - but we can also walk down the sidewalk in the anonymity of the city. Already in our new town, I visited a preschool where the director not only knew the family we were buying from but also knew the family of the house our sellers were buying, if that makes sense.<br />
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So this is my toe-touch in May to this beloved blog of mine. More to come; I promise. Happy weekend, friends.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-78653941101735975272013-04-19T11:52:00.002-05:002013-04-19T22:12:54.472-05:00Common good<br />
This week has reminded me of the hurt in our world. There’s a lot of it.<br />
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I still believe – I have to believe – that there is more good than bad in our world. Sometimes we just have to look a little harder.<br />
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<a href="http://www.openlands.org/" target="_blank">Openlands</a>, where I work, believes there is value in the common species in nature. While the rare is beautiful and important, we do not solely focus on it, which runs counter to conservation thinking. We want to connect people with nature, and nature means many different things to many different people. We recently started a program for 2nd to 5th graders that helps them identify the everyday birds in their backyard. Through the program, it’s our hopes that the schoolchildren gain an appreciation for nature, even through a humble connection to a sparrow, and someday will become conservation stewards themselves. “Common” birds are an important tool to our process.<br />
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Processing all of the news of this week, I slipped into Jossie’s room Wednesday night and picked up my sleeping toddler. I brought her back to my bed, and I pulled her close.<br />
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This act was not a protective one. It was for me; I needed to feel her good, innocent truth. The sense that I am raising Jossie and Jack in a world where Jeremy and I can keep them safe is not a given. How can I protect this cherub who looks at me with trust as she warbles, “You are my sunshine, my only sunshine”? How do I trust my prayerful requests at night to keep my family safe?<br />
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Rare are the heroes of this week – the people who ran into harm’s way to help others. Common are the good people in our lives every day. For me this morning, it’s the drugstore manager who wears a tie and helps his customers. It’s the engineer in my office building who tries to fix a stuck door. It’s me; at least I hope it is.<br />
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Perhaps it’s time to think about how common can do rare things. I feel very blessed in my life to have all I have – a home, food, my faith, and healthy family and friends. I treat people with respect and ask for the same in return. There has to be a place for me to act. I know in my heart that I need to act by speaking out more for the benefit of children and giving them all they deserve – confidence, a sense of value, and, above all, safety.<br />
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That is a tall order for the common. But we must start somewhere.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-77126175339291927642013-03-18T20:45:00.001-05:002013-03-18T21:04:46.175-05:00LuckySaturday morning, I tried the trick of warming vanilla extract in the oven to give our condo a welcoming scent for visiting house hunters. It's two tablespoons of vanilla extract in a mug, warmed in the oven at 300 degrees for 30-60 minutes. The results were so-so, in my opinion.<br />
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Sunday morning, I came to my senses and perfumed the house with something much more inviting.<br />
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2 cups unbleached all-purpose flour<br />
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Adjust oven rack to middle position and heat oven to 350 degrees. Spray standard muffin tin with nonstick vegetable cooking spray.<br />
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Whisk flour, baking powder, and salt in medium bowl until combined. Whisk egg in second medium bowl until well-combined and light-colored, about 20 seconds. Add sugar and whisk vigorously until thick and homogenous, about 30 seconds; add melted butter in 2 or 3 steps, whisking to combine after each addition. Add sour cream in 2 steps, whisking just to combine.<br />
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Use ice cream scoop or large spoon to drop batter into greased muffin tin. Bake until light golden brown and toothpick or skewer inserted into center of muffin comes out clean, 25 to 30 minutes, rotating pan from front to back halfway through baking time. Invert muffins onto wire rack, stand muffins upright, and cool 5 minutes.<br />
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In the afternoon, we drove north with our sights set on a visit to the Chicago Botanic Garden. Jossie fell asleep as we neared the garden, so we traveled farther north instead. We ended up in Lake Bluff, a sleepy (and wealthy) village along the shores of Lake Michigan. Jack's first school friend - Charlie - and his family had moved to Lake Bluff in the past few months, and I regretted not having their contact information to reach out to them for a last-minute visit.<br />
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Jeremy and I love the cafe <a href="http://wisma.us/" target="_blank">Wisma</a>, which also has a location nearby his office downtown, so we stopped in for a cup of coffee. If you're ever there, try the butternut squash soup - not a touch of dairy in it but yet so heavenly and creamy.<br />
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So - lo and behold - as Jeremy and I are oogling the prepared food and wine selection, Jack looks out the window and nonchalantly says, "Hey...there's Charlie." I wave frantically at Charlie's mom to get her attention and they bound into the little shop. Lots of big reuniting ensues with hugs and laughter. Jossie and Charlie's little brother, both 2, escape us and start making mischief, running their chubby hands against the hanging wine glasses; the glasses twinkle like wind chimes.<br />
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A writer I admire talks about the "daily surprise." I like the idea of that - opening yourself up to an element of surprise each day. It's liberating, really.<br />
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And this was truly ours - our surprising luck in running into dear friends. No telling news yet on any pending sales of our blueberry-scented condo, but if all of our luck had to be expended on this happy reunion and the accompanying good memories this St. Patrick's Day, I'll take it.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-37657703772748693312013-03-16T21:16:00.003-05:002013-03-18T12:19:25.767-05:00Here I amAm I tired?<br />
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Jack looked at me tonight as I gave him his bath and said, "Mommy, your eyes look cracked."<br />
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Yes, I'm tired.<br />
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It's a good tired from a busy week. We listed our condo Monday and by tomorrow night, we'll have had at least 16 showings. That is a lot of rounds of sweeping up crumbs, putting out the "show" towels and cleaning off the counters. I'm also trying to give work its due attention as things heat up there and have even scheduled some much-needed friend time. And I'm doing our income taxes. Fun.<br />
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Our week with the kids has taken two paths. One path is the refugee one - spending hours at a time away from our condo, packing our car with the essentials (snacks, water bottles and diapers) and the not-so-essentials (a bunch of Jack's art projects and Jossie's baby doll collection). The other path is time spent at home, trying to stick to routines, wash laundry, wash babies and eat plain meals to combat the restaurant meals we are eating otherwise.<br />
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So that's me on the Saturday night of St. Patrick's Day weekend in Chicago. <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/03/16/chicago-river-green-st-pa_n_2891531.html?1363457260&utm_hp_ref=chicago" target="_blank">The river is green</a>; revelry is in the air; and Jeremy and I are at home with two sleeping babies after an early dinner with good friends. More to come.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-71056095846448253832013-03-06T16:14:00.001-06:002013-03-06T16:14:22.527-06:00My shoes<br />
At best, my wardrobe has always been conservative. I have never been that interested in fashion; I have always worn my hair down. My jewelry is pretty straight-forward, when I wear any. My make-up is the same for day and evening. This morning, I put a bit of lip gloss on, and Jack actually asked what was different about my face.<br />
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This past weekend, I was going through my closet and pulling out things to donate, and Jossie surveys my shoes, her baby doll clutched in her hand. She pulls out a very worn pair of Cole Haan flats. She sets them on the floor and says, “pretty shoes,” which couldn’t be further from the truth.<br />
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She slips her feet into them. My heart melts a little at this moment of my daughter trying on my shoes.<br />
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But I almost feel sorry for Joss. Her mama doesn’t own glamorous high heels. Or even some good sparkly shoes. Or shoes that aren’t black.<br />
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But they are mine. I have walked miles in those shoes. I have felt sad, happy, proud, and disgruntled in those shoes.<br />
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And she is mine. For now. She doesn’t look at me with adoration or disdain. Right now, I’m just the Truth – mama, protector and provider. These are my shoes and they are pretty because they are her mama’s, and that is good enough for now.<br />
City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-58861979151693664222013-02-25T21:09:00.001-06:002013-02-25T21:09:48.147-06:00In placeAfter much complaining and chocolate, I am making my final ascent of Mt. Junk.<br />
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For the past few weeks, Jeremy and I have been slowly and painfully clearing out our 1,300-square-foot condo to prepare it for listing. Having two small children makes things that much more difficult. For example, after I pulled out the Easter baskets from my closet, then I had a bazillion plastic Easter eggs all over the house. Some even made their way into the car. I have tried to surround myself with a lot of patience.<br />
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We are so close to being show-ready. I can see the summit. I am so grateful to my parents and to two of my best friends for storing an embarrassingly amount of our stuff in their closets and basements. We have made three trips to the Salvation Army; I promise we didn't donate Jossie.<br />
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I cannot begin to describe how happy I feel in my walk-in closet. Seriously. The clothes - that we actually wear - hang neatly. The floors are not covered in shoes and toys. Jack and Jossie have a greatly reduced number of toys in their toy bins - toys they actually play with. It amazes me at how much "extra" we allow in our lives and once you weed through, how much easier things become.<br />
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Though as we clean and plan and think about moving, I just smile. We all think we can make a plan but we know life doesn't always follow accordingly. So here I am - trying to muster what control I can over my life - donating five dozen plastic hangers and packing box after box. Waiting for and wondering about the next chapter. More to come, my friends.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-60885559176851779882013-02-14T16:45:00.000-06:002013-02-14T16:50:43.067-06:00Happy Valentine's Day!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Photo by the fabulous Jill at <a href="http://jookiekids.com/" target="_blank">Jookie</a>.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-65347898175003102592013-02-13T20:20:00.000-06:002013-02-13T20:36:22.100-06:00Legos and loveTomorrow is Valentine's Day. I love the day for showing appreciation for our friends, family, teachers and colleagues. It's not really a day of red-hot love (sorry, Jer) and, anyways, I'm thankful for a husband who shows his love in thoughtful ways here and there throughout the year, rather than saving it for February 14. (Though I never mind a nice bit of chocolate or some bubbles...)<br />
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My blog is a little bit of everything as I chronicle life with two small children, a loving husband and one fat cat, living, working and playing in Chicago. So that said, I present to you: Jack's valentines project.<br />
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After <a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2013/01/pretty-in-pink.html">Jossie's birthday bash</a>, Maria offered to help Jack with his valentines. I was grateful for the break from being crafty. And then I pushed myself into the scene in typical me style.<br />
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Maria made Lego-themed valentines with Jack, and God bless her patience for gluing all of those itty-bitty hearts onto the cards. We found creative sayings online.<br />
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(Gratuitous Pinterest moment.) Then I threw in the Lego-shaped crayons idea. I have five years' worth of crayons from restaurants, and I bought a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0074SFQK0/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B0074SFQK0&linkCode=as2&tag=citswe-20" target="_blank">Lego mold</a><img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=as2&o=1&a=B0074SFQK0" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" />. A silicon mold is key to this project.<br />
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Before we go any further, I might suggest you step away from the crayons and call me, and let's get a drink instead. I'll go grab my purse.<br />
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After the painful task of peeling the wrappers off of the crayons and chopping them up into uniform sizes (no one ever tells you what a pain this task is and how you're probably going to ruin your cutting board), we filled up our molds. Jossie loved helping with this, with her chubby little fingers. I adore those chubby little fingers.<br />
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Put the mold on a baking sheet and bake at 275 degrees for 15 minutes or so. Let stand for a few hours and then peel the silicon mold away from the crayon. I found little treat bags for the crayons and used my new love - <a href="https://www.paper-source.com/cgi-bin/paper/item/Red-Polka-Dots-Washi-Tape/3620.040/429314.html" target="_blank">paper (or washi) tape</a> - to affix them to the little red envelopes. And voila! Jack's classmates can now give me the stink eye for giving them crayons instead of candy this Valentine's Day...<br />
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I like my city mama life. I have a well-worn path between my condo and my workplace. We have a trusted and loved daily caregiver for the kids. And I love the kids’ schools, pediatricians and classes. I have my grocery stores. I have my shortcuts and my ways. Life is working.<br />
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Sunday afternoon, our family attended a brunch/art project for current families in the Prentice NICU. W<a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2012/11/an-early-thanksgiving.html">e've thanked the nurses and doctors</a> and <a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2012/09/full-circle.html">celebrated with NICU grad families</a>, but this was my and Jeremy's first experience with direct services with current families.<br />
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Given my hesitancy for change, this was a good reminder for me. The biggest change of my little life so far has been motherhood, and in the case of being a preemie mom, you’re thrown into the deep end before you even expect it.<br />
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Granted – the group who attended the brunch were self-selected – but I was impressed with the handful of mothers I spoke with and their willingness to work through the change they have been given. They were ready to learn, to share with others about their experiences and make Valentine’s Day artwork for their little ones’ pods. One new mom just had her baby the day before! I was only with them for an hour but was reminded of my own changes in my life and how they weren't solved overnight – there was a period of transition and hard work. In respect to the NICU, each day Jossie was there felt like an eternity. And besides the whole leaving my newborn there every day for 22 days, there were also the grody tasks of dealing with insurance, figuring out what to do with work (since I left early) and childcare for Jack. And now it is but a brief memory.<br />
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Jossie and Jack are my beautiful rewards of Jeremy's and my hard work. One current NICU mom kindly squeezed my hand and told me that seeing a healthy, lively Jossie “made her day.” (This was on our way out the door – if I had known that sooner, I would have asked Jossie to count to 10 and run backwards to show off her skills.) The NICU receptionists sang the kids’ praises. Two years ago, I couldn't envision today – and I wish I could have.<br />
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And so back to that darn stuff in my condo. It will get organized and packed. The toys that stay will be stored in clever ways to hide during showings but to also remain accessible to the kids’ whims. And getting my act together at home and making hard decisions about our move with Jeremy will be part of something bigger. It will allow us to move to a bigger space. To join a new community. To host more family and friends. To create a home for our family. Thinking about the bigger goals of tomorrow makes the finite tasks of today much more manageable.<br />
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And that, I suppose, can apply to all levels of our lives. Happy week ahead, my friends.<br />
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Saturday was a brightly sunny and chilly day. Our morning started at the children's photography studio <a href="http://jookiekids.com/" target="_blank">jookie</a>. The owner Jill is a Northwestern alum as well. In 2008, <a href="http://www.jookiephoto.com/blog/2008/12/back-in-the-blogsphere/" target="_blank">she photographed a one-year-old Jack.</a><br />
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We were thrilled to give back through her Valentine's Day fundraiser. We are excited to see the images she captured, which we'll share. Jack, per usual, did not want to go, and as soon as we got there, while I was still fussing with Jossie's hair, Jack was already in front of the camera, giving Jill adorable smiles. </div>
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jookie is located in my BFF's old neighborhood, Chicago's <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lincoln_Square,_Chicago" target="_blank">Lincoln Square</a>. We never go there anymore, so a trip up there warranted some time walking around the neighborhood and poking around the many locally owned shops. <a href="http://timelesstoyschicago.com/" target="_blank">Timeless Toys</a> has all of the requisite Melissa & Doug and Playmobil gear, but they also have a great selection of lesser-known board games and dress-up clothes. <a href="http://www.genessausageshop.com/" target="_blank">Gene's Sausage Shop</a> is just as amazing as it sounds (besides smoked meats they have a nice selection of specialty ingredients, like fine sea salt). And Merz Apothecary has a variety of natural health and beauty products, including my new favorite, friend-recommended hand cream, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00025WYKC/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B00025WYKC&linkCode=as2&tag=citswe-20">Lotil</a>. </div>
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Our outing also included brunch at <a href="http://www.cafeselmarie.com/" target="_blank">Cafe Selmarie</a>, where we ran into college friends and enjoyed a hearty breakfast of multi-grain pancakes, scrambled eggs and chicken sausage. We rarely brunch anymore, with having the two littles, so this was a treat. I may have ordered myself a mimosa. It's very Middle America there - patrons dressed in oversized sweaters, jeans or leggings and snow boots. Little ones are rapping silverware against the tables, their hair sticking up from their mamas pull wool caps off of their heads. Local watercolors adorn the walls and are sale for purchase. The servers are all twenty-somethings, wearing their funky eyeglasses while serving up creative dishes like cinnamon roll griddlecakes. </div>
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And today is Sunday. Everyone was in bed until 8 a.m., which is unheard of. I made waffles. They were not overly sweet but do have a hint of cinnamon warmth. To make them appealling to kids, add some maple syrup, fruit and/or a dollop of whipped cream.</div>
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Preheat a waffle iron. In a large mixing bowl, using a sturdy whisk, beat the eggs until evenly mixed. Add buttermilk, oil, sugar, cinnamon and baking soda. Whisk together until well combined. Add the flour, baking powder and salt and whisk until just the large lumps disappear. The waffle batter should be a little thicker than heavy cream. Transfer the batter to a large glass measuring pitcher (I used a four-cup measuring glass).</div>
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I have two some bunnies who were driving me crazy at home tonight. After our holiday weekend of fun, it was back to work today. When I got home at 5 p.m., toting my Target purchases and trying to shake off the chilly Chicago temperatures, I had no break. There is no happy hour. No civility. It's right into mama mode, making dinner, negotiating squabbles, giving baths and brushing the teeth of a thrashing toddler.<br />
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The end of the night was laughably bad - Jossie and I had toothpaste all over our clothes and the bathroom floor had large puddles of water. I asked Jack the same question about seven times before he responded; he was too busy hopping around our living room, which was strewn with toys. I was tired.<br />
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Lately, I've had tiny triumphs at work - shared and personal. Even just tonight - while the crazy ensued at home - my boss emailed me about two major gifts coming our way. And as a fundraiser, I'm constantly thinking about my organization's outcomes and how we can accurately show progress to our donors.<br />
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Successes at home are a lot harder to measure, which is hard for my Type A brain to comprehend. Success comes in different ways - me keeping some bit of calm rather than reaching the end of my rope tonight is a tiny success. Me reading to the kids and them settling down to enjoy the stories is a tiny success. Jack and Jossie both falling asleep in my arms, all of us cuddled in Jack's twin bed is a tiny success, with a little heavenly intervention surely thrown in.<br />
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I'm never going to be a perfect mom. I will lose my temper from time to time. I will lean on TV - dear sweet TV - to entertain my kids while I make dinner. And I will wish I could just have some Peace and Quiet once in awhile. <br />
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But for now - these little bunnies are little. And needy. They need me and my love and the structure I bring to our home. I know they will benefit from what I'm trying to do here - for them to know they are loved above anything else.<br />
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Since October 31, my family has donned Halloween costumes and eaten candy, sang happy birthday to Jack, saw the Macy's Thanksgiving Day parade in person and eaten turkey in New York, lit eight nights of candles for Hanukkah and celebrated with Jack's preschool class, awaited Santa's visit and played in the snow in Cleveland, toasted 2013 with Champagne and sparkling cider, watched the Northwestern Wildcats finally win a bowl game, and - just this past weekend - end our party season with a family weekend for Jossie's second birthday. </div>
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As usual, the best moments of this weekend were the unplanned ones. My parents and Jeremy's parents sitting at the dining room table Saturday night chatting; my sisters, all of our kids and me sitting in the living room; and my mom likening Jossie's behavior to mine (we both sucked our index finger as toddlers) and Jeremy's mom likening Jack's behavior to Jeremy (both hummed constantly while playing toys as preschoolers).</div>
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Jossie and Jack had big smiles on their faces all weekend. As we toasted Jossie Saturday night, surrounded by our loved ones, I noted how lucky she was. How lucky we all are.</div>
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I unabashedly did everything in pink this weekend. I bought a few things from the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/s/?_encoding=UTF8&hvnetw=g&keywords=martha%20stewart%20vintage%20girl&tag=citswe-20&hvpone=&index=aps&linkCode=ur2&hvexid=&hvadid=7362326124&ref=pd_sl_1iy4etmqg5_e&camp=1789&creative=390957&hvpos=1t1&hvrand=7558291212111113265&hvptwo=&hvqmt=e" target="_blank">Martha Steward Vintage Girl</a><img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="https://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=ur2&o=1" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" /> line to help decorate and found inspiration from <a href="http://pinterest.com/city_sweet/" target="_blank">Pinterest</a>. My sister made some tulle pom-poms that I will reuse in Jossie's future playroom.<br />
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The food was simple breakfast foods; besides me baking the zucchini and banana breads and my mom cutting up the fruit, we bought everything pre-made. Easy! Sparkling pink lemonade and pink and white striped paper straws were highlights.<br />
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Personalized stickers from <a href="http://www.etsy.com/shop/CelebrateLilThings" target="_blank">this Etsy seller</a> adorned the empty bakery boxes, waiting to be filled with sweet treats.<br />
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We had light pink and white flowers from <a href="http://www.anewleafchicago.com/" target="_blank">A New Leaf</a> and a confetti birthday cake from <a href="http://sweetmandybs.com/" target="_blank">Sweet Mandy B's</a>.<br />
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City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-83352643415343276112013-01-17T07:30:00.000-06:002013-01-17T14:47:43.195-06:00Happy birthday to JossieJossie was born at 12:33 a.m., 33 minutes into her 33rd week of gestation. God graced me with the gift of a suit of armor that lasted for 12 hours or so after her birth. I only felt elation, adrenaline and relief for her safe and healthy birth. She was breathing on her own and regulating her temperature well. We knew each other the moment Jeremy brought her to me. Daughter and mother. Joy. It would be a little later on that doubt, regret and worry would sneak in, but blessedly only temporarily in the grand scheme of things.<br />
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And today is her second birthday, and she is our beautiful, determined little girl. The sun shines brightly today, a stark contrast to the bitterly cold temperatures, as it did two years ago. The happiness that surrounded us during those early moments surrounds us tenfold today.<br />
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<i>Happy birthday to our dear Jossie.</i><br />
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Jossie, you have much patience living in a house full of firstborns - your mother, father, and older brother. At an early age, I see you learning the art of negotiation. When Jack was 2, he would ask for a TV show, and I'd happily oblige. When you ask for a show, you say, "Elmo show <i>first</i>," giving Jack a watchful eye to see how he'll respond.<br />
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You are our quiet observer and you have always been that way. Even as a newborn, you would look deeply into the eyes of your doctors and nurses, trying to figure them out. I see you do that in every new situation you're in, taking stock of the scene before delving into action.<br />
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You are happy to amuse yourself. When you wake up in the morning or after your nap, you're more than happy for one of us to put a few books and a comfy pillow in your crib for your quiet time.<br />
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You are a self-proclaimed "Daddy's princess" who loves horses, puppies and baby dolls. But you also love watching football, playing hallway soccer with Jack (which you call "hallway balls"), and a good pillow fight. I hope you always keep them guessing, Joss, and keep your interests diverse.<br />
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City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-69935791770974568242013-01-08T20:00:00.000-06:002013-01-09T16:27:10.059-06:00I resolveI have been meaning to write a resolutions post for the past week. One of the lessons learned in 2012 was if you write something down, there's already something to it.<br />
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But 2013 has been one of those sneaky ocean waves for me so far. You're walking toward the sandy shore, and it catches you, knocking you down. You get a bit disoriented, your hands and knees dug into the sand and broken shells, and you try to stand up, only to be knocked down again.<br />
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But is it really that bad? You're still at the beach and probably someone you love is watching from the shore, having a good laugh at your poor expense.<br />
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Anyways, 2013. 2013. 2013. Had a few work headaches and illness at home to start off this new year. Like multiple people throwing up on me. I've taken to listening to the 40s XM station in the car and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqC5YtutWAU" target="_blank">this song came on</a> when I was feeling particularly low. Someone up there has a great sense of humor.<br />
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We are all getting better and I have a quiet moment to list off my resolutions.<br />
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1. Live generously. <a href="http://thisibelieve.org/essay/15607/" target="_blank">This essay describes it beautifully.</a> As the essayist states, "...I believe I’ve been given much, so much is required of me." My family is healthy; Jeremy and I have a lovely network of supportive friends; and our jobs allow us some flexibility (the flip side being we work on off-hours sometimes). We're thriving on this as long as we can - volunteering in Jack's classroom and I am enjoying my work through the March of Dimes, which is mostly therapy for me.<br />
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2. Self compassion over perfectionism. This is taken directly from the book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1592407331/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=citswe-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1592407331">Daring Greatly</a>. Perfectionism isn't attainable. Tonight I'm choosing some sleep over running errands. It feels good.<br />
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3. Respect myself and protect my health for my kids. My youngest sister has challenged my middle sister, my mom and I to run/walk a marathon each month - meaning adding 26.2 extra miles into our daily activity over a month's period. Mine has been simple - instead of catching the train to work, I walk the 1.9 miles daily. I also am trying to skip cheese for the month of January. We'll see how long that lasts. (Reference resolution 2).<br />
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4. My ever-present goal of being present. Today of all days, I had a choice. I could go to work and dig in, or I could rearrange things to attend Jossie's first-ever music class. I'm so glad I made the choice I did. Jossie might never remember this day, but I will. No regrets. The love continued with Jeremy and Jossie dancing around the kitchen at dinner time. No TV, no iPads or iPhones, just us.<br />
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I say it often but here's to writing the best stories we can in 2013.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-10789407037726806672012-12-31T14:31:00.001-06:002012-12-31T14:32:23.916-06:00Happy with what we haveThe holidays hullabaloo are winding down. I'm at work today - New Year's Eve is a fundraiser's Super Bowl. I'm waiting for today's mail and last-minute phone calls from donors as I keep tabs on our nation nearing the fiscal cliff. I suspect our politicians have their toes curled over the edge at this point.<br />
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Winter is coming. I'm looking forward to some quieter days. Some togetherness. Jeremy and I left the condo together this morning and I reflected that 2012 might be one of our best years. Save for my brother-in-law's run-in with a tree branch, our family has been healthy. (He's fine now, by the way.) Jossie is healthy and has not shown any developmental delays because of her prematurity. Our kids are small enough that life isn't too complicated yet with after-school activities and social drama. We're just here and happy with what we have (which includes my awesome new <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001KYT6CS/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=citswe-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B001KYT6CS">Sodastream</a><img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=as2&o=1&a=B001KYT6CS" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" />
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My children can be crazy little animals (as exhibited by their behavior this weekend as we paid our visits to friends) but they are mine. While their needs are great, they won't be little for forever, and I'm trying to remember that. They're only in my nest for so long, and I'm constantly trying to be present when I'm with them.<br />
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We're renewing our memberships to museums for wintertime visits, and there are stacks of Chicago Public Library books on the kids' dresser. I'm thrilled at the amount of non-digital gifts we received for Christmas, and I'm hoping for hours of imaginary play. Well, at least a few minutes.<br />
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Jossie is in love with her baby dolls. After they had gone to bed one night, I was cleaning up toys and noticed that Joss had put her doll in its high chair and had fashioned a potholder to be the baby's bib. Her doll's tray was filled with lots of play food. It made me smile.<br />
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Two years ago, during a bitterly cold January midnight's hour, Jossie's early birth knocked me upside-down. Now, her birthday is a bright joy just a few weeks after the holidays. Jossie is little enough that we'll just have a small family party at home, and it'll be sparkly pinks, silvers and whites because I can.<br />
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Here are some of my wintertime delights right now:<br />
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On my Pandora station: <a href="http://www.theavettbrothers.com/#!News" target="_blank">The Avett Brothers</a><br />
On my DVR (which I never have time to watch): <a href="http://www.rachelkhoo.com/" target="_blank">The Little Paris Kitchen</a> and she has a <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1452113432/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=citswe-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1452113432">cookbook</a><img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=as2&o=1&a=1452113432" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" /> coming out in February!<br />
On Jack's nightstand: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1442457023/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=citswe-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1442457023">The Fantastic Flying Books of Mr. Morris Lessmore</a><img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=citswe-20&l=as2&o=1&a=1442457023" style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" width="1" /> (for all those who love reading)<br />
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Much love to you and happy wishes for 2013.<br />
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<br />City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-26327298132202181832012-12-22T20:58:00.000-06:002012-12-22T20:58:04.764-06:00A life of significance<a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2012/12/its-time.html">Last Friday night,</a> I was planning to write impassioned weekly blog posts on how we - you and me, reader - can change the world by writing our legislators, teaching our kids tolerance and love, and working with our school's administrators to make our schools safer.<br />
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A week of reflection has led me in a different direction. I'm forming the idea that we - each and every one of us - can make change. We can honor those teachers and young students whose lives were lost last Friday. And we can each do it in our <i>own</i> way.<br />
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I am guided by two major events this week. One - something that happens weekly. I, like many others, sought solace in my church this past Sunday. The associate pastor's sermon was based on a life of <i>generous living</i>, citing <a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+3%3A7-18&version=NIV" target="_blank">Luke 3:7-18</a>. It's a life of being attentive to other's needs and to give back, and that's a life I'd like to lead.<br />
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We can't make change happen overnight. But incremental change happens daily. We can positively affect our children, our friends, our colleagues. And a moment will come when we can stand back - and maybe the end of 2012 is a good time to do this for you personally - and think about the collective positive change that has happened. Because you cared. Because you helped. Because you spoke your mind. Every little step adds up to something big.<br />
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The second major event this week brought me great sorrow. I am one of thousands of people who benefited from the leadership, guidance and teachings of <a href="http://www.legacy.com/obituaries/chicagotribune/obituary.aspx?n=jimmie-alford&pid=161874353&fhid=2226" target="_blank">Jimmie Alford</a>, who passed away suddenly from a heart attack at the age of 69 this Tuesday. He is a leader in the non-profit movement, and I benefited from Openlands being one of his clients and I was one of his students of a graduate class at North Park University. He lived his life true. He wasn't ashamed to tell you of his humble beginnings and of the company he built. His love for his beautiful wife and partner, Maree, his family and society was worn on his sleeve. He believed that we as part of the non-profit world could make great societal change and everything he did, he did humbly. He had vision, leadership and compassion.<br />
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Jeremy and I attended his memorial service today. An incredible man and an incredible life of significance. He touched many and now it's our job to carry on his good service. As one friend remembered him, Jimmie never had work-life balance. He just had life balance - everything he did - in both career and family - served a higher meaning, and that's a life I'd like to lead.<br />
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So this is my simple call to action: Do not be afraid to share your gifts with the world. Positive change will come of it, I'm sure. Good night, my friends.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-34866659778723267792012-12-18T21:40:00.001-06:002012-12-22T20:09:52.937-06:00JoyAfter Friday's terrible story from Newtown, Connecticut, all I wanted was my family, my kids, my joy. Much of the weekend was spent thinking of and praying for the parents who lost their precious children, as well as feeling this sense of gratitude - as well as guilt for that gratitude - that I had my children with me, safe and sound. I still has moments of exasperation but overall tried to practice a bit more patience when my kids' behavior got nutty. <br />
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It was rainy and bleak most of the weekend but Jeremy and I turned up the holidays indoors. We made our annual visit to breakfast with Santa at the Chicago Botanic Garden early Saturday morning, which included a visit to the <a href="http://www.chicagobotanic.org/wonderland/" target="_blank">Wonderland Express</a>. The kids loved the holiday trains; I loved seeing the miniature Chicago landmarks created from natural materials.<br />
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Visiting with Santa was an adventure. As we waited in line, Jossie kept making beelines for "San-tie, San-tie." But when it was our turn - and I set my sweet girl down in front of the big jolly man, Jossie burst into tears. When Santa asked her what she wanted, she sobbed, "baby doll." And big brother Jack was pleased/relieved to hear he was on the nice list before asking for more Legos.<br />
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Jeremy's parents and sister arrived in the late morning for a quick weekend visit and a Hanukkah party that night. I'm not sure how it works out this way, but most of the holidays I host are the Jewish ones - Rosh Hashanah, Passover and Hanukkah. And I have to say, I kind of rocked Hanukkah Saturday night - not bad for an Italian Protestant girl. At one point, I believe I went so far as to instruct my Jewish mother-in-law on the making of latkes.<br />
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My new favorite nosh with pre-dinner drinks is Ina's rosemary cashews - a hint of heat and a hint of sweet.<br />
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Dinner was latkes, homemade applesauce, <a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2010/05/simple-elegant-dinner.html" target="">rack of lamb</a>, and <a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2012/11/autumn-supper-club.html" target="">Brussels sprouts</a>. Dessert was cookies and <a href="http://www.city-sweet.com/2012/02/love-in-loaf-pan.html">zucchini bread</a>. It was nice to have this family time - around one table.<br />
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I really needed a little holiday.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-49803189436066320872012-12-16T07:15:00.002-06:002012-12-17T06:13:11.390-06:00Send our loveThe teachers and administrators at Jack's school mean the world to us. As Jack is the oldest, every twist and turn of his development and learning is new to us. They have guided us, providing us sound advice. We had a field trip Friday morning with his class, and - even though each child had his or her own chaperone - I noticed the teachers periodically taking count of the kids. Yesterday, we received an email from the school's director sending pointers on talking about tragedies with kids and reaffirming her love for our children and our families.<br />
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I, like many others, will attend church today to help find reason and solace in Friday's tragedy. Let's send our love and prayers to the families who lost their loved ones. Here are the school administrators' and teachers' Facebook pages, in case you have a few minutes to send your thoughts:<br />
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<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Dawn-Lafferty-Hochsprung-Victim-of-Sandy-Hook-Elementary-Shooting-121412/403237739753017?fref=pb" target="_blank">Dawn Lafferty Hochsprung, Sandy Hook Elementary's principal</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Rest-In-Peace-Mary-Sherlach-Victim-of-The-Sandy-Hook-School-Shooting/299010586886466?fref=ts" target="_blank">Mary Sherlach, Sandy Hook Elementary's school psychologist</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/RIP-Lauren-Rousseau/308584202575546" target="_blank">Lauren Rousseau, Teacher</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/victoriasotorip?fref=pb" target="_blank">Victoria Soto, Teacher</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/RIP-Rachel-Davino-Sandy-Hook-Shooting-Victim/315291395246901?fref=ts" target="_blank">Rachel D'Avino, Teacher</a><br />
<a href="http://www.facebook.com/RestInPeaceAnneMarieMurphySandyHookShootingVictim?fref=pb" target="_blank">Anne Marie Murphy, Teacher</a><br />
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To access the students' pages, you'll see links on the teachers' pages.<br />
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<i>Addendum: I'm realizing that some of this pages are "unauthorized" - set up by a well-meaning person who is not related to the families. Please use your own judgement. For those who would like to send financial support to those in need, <a href="https://newtown.uwwesternct.org/" target="_blank">please look here</a> for one suggestion.</i><br />
<br />City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6899143821353879514.post-42114628516203301222012-12-14T21:27:00.001-06:002012-12-14T21:40:05.555-06:00It's timeThis holiday season, I have a new decoration - a "Happy Holidays" metal sign with lots of swirls to tuck holiday cards into. It's overflowing with adorable pictures of my family and friends' little ones.<br />
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You and me - we can't let those little ones down.<br />
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Today there was a horrific tragedy for our nation. Twenty-eight dead at a Connecticut elementary school because of a gunman; 20 of the total are children. 11 days before Christmas.<br />
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Today, we mourn. We hold our children close. We put posts on Facebook and tweet on Twitter, crying for stricter gun laws and sending our prayers to those families who lost their children. We light the candles on the menorah and the lights on the Christmas tree to represent hope. We even quote Mr. Rogers because we need common sense and a reminder of the good in the world.<br />
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Today can last as long as we need it to. To grieve. To try to make sense of a senseless act. To send peace to the families who have experienced the unthinkable. Let us have today.<br />
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But tomorrow will come.<br />
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When you become a parent, your heart is not within you any more. It walks to the bus stop; it plays at the playground; it sits in a school classroom.<br />
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We have to do something, and it's time. My readers - you - have resources at your disposable and it's time we use them. I've learned a lot from 2012, and one of my biggest lessons is that something big can start from something small. So let's have faith that we can make a change. Let's make our schools safer for our kids. For our Jack. For our Jossie. For your son. For your daughter.<br />
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It's time to write our legislators. It's time we make donations to relevant non-profits. It's time we recognize the need to make mental health care accessible for all. It's time we - you and me - stand up to bullying and the effects it has.<br />
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Please join me. <a href="https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/immediately-address-issue-gun-control-through-introduction-legislation-congress/2tgcXzQC" target="_blank">Here's a petition to sign.</a><br />
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And tonight, let's kiss our sleeping sweet children on their heads.City Sweethttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14463066177136191254noreply@blogger.com0